18 December 2008

Do It Properly Guys

It's time to move to a new story I guess. Don't be surprised if I post something academic because, economy is my field. Ahaks! Well these are some candid photos I took:


Dear guys, when you go out with your girlfriends or wives, do not put your hands on their shoulders for two reasons:

a. you look like you want to strangle her and you look lazy and bossy.
b. your arm is big and heavy. Poor the lady who has keep up with your weight.
c. it doesn't look romantic. It is better to put your arms around her waist.

26 Reptozian Messages:

One Other ... said...

What an insight, Willie! Coming from a guy nonetheless! Yes, put on the waist, not on the shoulder. While some gf/wives wont complain outright, it still looks like what it is to other people, right?

Willie said...

Oneother > u r right! ten marks for you.

Sumuk said...

or hold the hands..

Kadus_Mama said...

I prefer holding hand..its more romantic..! Some more can tarik-tarik each other.. :)
Oh..hand on the shoulder also not really a good idea coz' you don't want 'unwanted' smell emitted to the air..hehehe (polikok smell!! hahaha)

C.Alv.B said...

Hahhahaha.. I prefer my bf hold my hand and waist. It's more romantic..ahakz..!!!

Kay Leaf said...

~*agree*~

Hamidah Mohamad said...

You really move fast with your stories, I hardly can catch up with you haha..(just managed to post comment on your previous post)...About putting hands be it on the shoulders or around the waist,personally I wish my other half wouldn't do that to me in public places.(Too bad sometimes he did hehe..)(Hey, I'm romantic too you know!)

Lori said...

I think you identified the problem, Willie. They're doing it to convey possession and ownership of the woman. I agree. It looks, and feels, a bit aggressive.

cdason said...

Hahah.. Always prefered the waist..

Like feeling that curve :P

Holding hand comes a near second.. but on putting hand on the shoulder is not romantic :P

yatie said...

tak suka kalau org letak tgn atas bahu....berat la

Bb said...

me also don't like people put their hands on my shoulder..

Zeelicious MeowMeow said...

Put on the bum bum..
Muahaha...that look kinda pervert..lol..
I'm just kidding.. :D

Willie said...

Sumuk & Kadus Mama > yes. Hold the hand. That will be more romantic.

CalVB > Yes. When you hold the waist, it looks lovely.

Kayleaf > Thanks.

Hamidah > Hehehehehe (grin) why not have more on the waist? I know he's romantic.

Lori > oh okay...that's new.

Cdason > The feeling is great right?

Yatie & Bb> betul tuh. memang berat.

Zeelecious Meow > there's a place to do that. HEhehe

chubskulit said...

I agreee completely,when you put it on the lady's shoulder, its a burden hehehe...

Added you back in my list, thanks for linking me up..

We can follow each other's blog too if you want...

Take care!

Dee Loner said...

Well, my big boyfriend SOMETIMES put his arm on my shoulder while walking... it's easier for him to pull me to him and give a peek kiss on cheek. and i noticed he'd smell my hair or kiss my shoulder whenever he put his arm in that position.. :)
somehow i love it.. love it when guy's in control ....

holding hands, that's common.. try squeezing each other's hand once in a while.. cute!..

Willie said...

Chubskulit > yo do?

Dee Loner > actually its a matter of preference. It's good if you love it. HEhehe u like guys to be in control? hehehehe *grin*

khairul onggon said...

Hehehe.. ku rasa patut ditujukan pada lelaki yang berpimpin tgn ngan lekaki juak kikiki..

Apa yg willie padah ya nang mena... Lebih2 gik mun lam shopping complex, hypermarket, ada CCTV, kelak urg ingat kita copet something hehehe...

Samantha said...

omg do u stalk people in supermarkets? LOL say no... haha.

GregChai said...

hahaha OMG, tangkap basah !

Bro, i guess this fella needs to check out this post

http://www.wikihow.com/Ask-Your-Girlfriend-to-Hold-Hands

good one bro.

Audio said...

Wakakakka... haihh sapa laaa couple yang malang ya ekekek.. terus kenak spyshot hehehe.. XD

Willie said...

Khairul > org Bangla byk molah kedak ya.

Samantha > harharhar...it was a coincidence. I was taking photo of my son when i saw this couple who got my attention. Kuang kuang kuang.

Greg > hahahah...really bro?

Audio> entahler. sebab ya ambik belakang jak. jaga privacy. Kuang kuang kuang

amiey alen said...

i hate when my bf did that even he is not doing that.... im his gf...not his friend....
holding someones shoulder seems to be that you're a fren of him/her..hehe

Kengkaru Kong said...

200% agreed!!!

sharon (^.^) said...

hahahahah so trueeeee!! i hate guys do that unless they are my best friends!! but guys' arm are indeed heavy!!

Willie said...

amiey > Oh Really?

Kengkaru Kong > wah!

Sharon > later you will walk like a hunchback!

Desmond said...

If this is an economic post then the guy reflects the sluggish economic slowdown in the world leaning on the consumers (lady in the picture)